Newsletter – A Cheater’s Online Trail Of Deceit
These days, everyone has a computer in their home and office. And most of those computers are connected to the internet. Online chat rooms, email, and video chat services have become very popular, even to the cheating partner.
Someone that is involved in an affair is in need of attention and communication with their secret lover. What better place to communicate than the computer? Considering that some online chat only involves typing, a cheater can easily go unnoticed by those around them – including you!
If you happen to notice that your significant other seems to be spending a ton of time on the computer, or whenever you pass by, they seem anxious, there could be a possibility they are up to no good.
It is very easy to have a conversation in one window and quickly switch to another window when they unsuspecting partner draws near. You happen by and see a spreadsheet (for work of course) up on the screen, as a cover to the no good they are up to!
They probably will question what you need when you are around the computer as well. If they are “just surfing the net”, they not likely going to care that you are standing by. However, if you are interrupting their time with that secret lover, they are going to make all attempts to get you to move along. While you are standing there, they cannot chat now can they? Stick around long enough and they will probably get heated and frustrated with you. What kind of reaction is that when they are “just surfing the net”?
Don’t be fooled by the late and long nights they spend on the computer either. Hey, once you are asleep it’s time to play after all. While they might still be on alert, they probably get comfort hearing you snore in the bedroom. If your computer is replacing you, then you need to investigate further.
Many times the victim of an affair is not at all familiar with computers and the internet. What their cheating partner tells them, they believe because of the lack of knowledge. If this describes you, then you gotta learn real fast. Don’t let them dupe you, cause if they know they can, they will. Get on the computer and play around; maybe even take a class. If you are computer savvy, your cheating partner is less likely going to be able to pull the wool over your eyes.
Getting information on your cheating partners online activity is easier than you think. With a little know-how, you can use a program called a keylogger to expose all the dirty little secrets that hide within your computer. Not only can you read the emails they type, but you also have access to images they view, web pages they visit, even the chat conversations they are having. Setup for keylogging software is quite easy and once in place, you have access through a private login. WARNING: If your significant other IS cheating you are more than likely going to come across text and images that could be detrimental and hurtful. Remember what your reasons are for doing this – to uncover their secret double life. Below, I have recommended a keylogger for you to check out. While there are many out there to choose from, I was impressed by how concise and detailed the logs were. If you want to look at a few other keylogger options, I have reviewed them here: http://keylogger-review.blogspot.com/
Take time now to decide how important the truth is. If you partner is hiding something from you, then there is a real problem you need to deal with. Wait no longer to get to the bottom of their secret affair.
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Spyhead from KeyneticsNeed more information on how to catch a cheating partner? A very good resource that I recommend is by Sarah Paul. Her book, How To Catch A Cheating Spouse, will give you insight and the knowledge you need to put an end to the affair.
In my thoughts during this troubling time,
David