After The Affair
Welcome to the “how to survive an affair” section of our site. Please know that you are not alone in your situation.
In April 2004, Dr. Gunzburg performed an extensive survey of 300 willing couples who all had suffered from the effects of an affair. With over 35 years in the psychology field, Dr. Gunzburg believes that “successfully repairing your relationship is not about doing a lot of hard work; it’s a system. As part of a free e-course and more detail, Dr. Gunzburg’s program addresses three phases to help a couple save their marriage after an affair:
Phase I: Individual Healing – Understanding Personal Feelings and Sorting through Emotions
- Take control of the paralyzing emotions.
- Regain your sense of stability and get rid of the images.
- Eliminate the paranoia and restore your self-confidence.
- Cut-off the affair and move back to your spouse.
- Replace the lies with truth and start over.
- Understand why the affair happened.
- Uncover what was missing and how to add it.
Phase II: Healing As a Couple – Working Together to Identify and Resolve Key Issues
- Accelerate the healing process: Protect your relationship from further harm.
- Discover how to talk about the details.
- Transform your relationship with a heart-felt apology.
- Generate new honest communication.
- Ignite a renewed life-long commitment.
- Capture peace of mind with true forgiveness.
Phase III: Negotiating a Renewed Relationship – Understanding How to Rebuild and Sustain a New Trust-filled Partnership
- Eliminate the suspicion with complete transparency.
- Restore your sex life without haunting visions.
- Affair-proof your marriage for life.
- Develop lasting safety, honesty and intimacy.
- Accept the past without being tormented
Counseling is usually the first step, but it’s not for everyone. For one thing, it’s expensive. For another, it might be difficult to get your husband to go with you. Many people resist the idea of seeking help from someone who, at least initially, is a stranger and might be judgmental. Maybe you even do this yourself.
Or maybe you’ve already tried counseling, but had to stop for some reason. Or maybe you’re still going for sessions, but still feel like you need some extra guidance — like a program with homework or a workbook to help you both process your thoughts, and communicate, and find your way back to each other.
I urge you to sign up for the free e-course below. You’ll discover that someone understands what you’re going through right now, and that you’re not alone. The lessons will help you, plus you’ll learn about the special techniques hundreds of other couples have used to survive infidelity and move forward with a happy, healthy marriage.
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