Infidelity 101 – The Not-So-Secret Life of a Cheating Spouse

You are last to know. And when you find out, you are devastated. Your dream world is crushed by two words: cheating spouse. No one wants to be the victim of infidelity. If you have felt something is different between you and your spouse, knowing the characteristics and habits of a cheater is invaluable. Watching for these cheater’s cues and taking action will insure you will not be the last to know.

When someone gets involved with another person, whether it is a new relationship or a case of infidelity, each wants to do whatever it takes to impress the other person. For your cheating spouse this might mean a change in wardrobe, new perfume or cologne, even a new hair style. These out-of-the-blue changes should set off the cheater alarms loud and clear. If you cannot get a straight answer out of your spouse, it might indicate a cheating spouse.

If you suspect your spouse is cheating online, you can quickly get a ton of information with the right tool. If your spouse scrambles to switch screens, or close programs as you approach the computer, it is likely they are trying to hide something. A good keylogger program, that stores information about their computer session, such as emails, images, web sites and chat, will provide a clear picture of what’s up. What can they say when you present to them the very text they exchanged with an online honey?

A person involved in affair can change their sexual interests. If they are getting a hot and steamy good time with this secret lover, you might not have what they want or need anymore. If your sexual relationship starts to fade into a memory, ask questions, find out why there is less intimacy. While work, finances and health might attribute to a low self-esteem and subsequently low desire to be intimate, it is likely your spouse will divulge this information, either voluntarily or through coercion. What’s up might not be what you think it is!