Infidelity 101 – See Through Your Cheating Spouse and Their Sneaky Affair Before it is Too Late

Sitting at your local coffee shop, your friend begins to describe to you how they felt when discovering their spouse was cheating. “I felt like I was hit by a large truck, and did not even see it coming!”. You really feel for them as they start to weep. “It was the last thing I thought would ever happen to us.” All you can think is how glad you and your spouse have such a great relationship. Or do you? Have you ever considered that you have a cheating spouse? Even if you did, would you know what to look for? Read on to discover signs of a cheating spouse.

Whenever we introduce something new into our lives, there is a pronounced focus on that new item. The same is true with a cheating spouse and their lover. You might notice that your spouse is more distracted when they are around you. They might even become more forgetful. Because they are so focused on their secret lover, everything else in their lives comes second place. Sometimes if we are under stress, it can take our minds to another place. However, if you cannot think of any reasons why your spouse might be more of a daydreamer lately, you should consider they are up to no good.

When someone is in the midst of a new love, there is a desire to want to please the other person. Their new flame might like the way your spouse dresses, or the smell of a certain perfume/cologne. If you see that your spouse is sporting a new look, smell, or even adopting a new exercise regime, you better step back and question why. Unless you believe they are doing it all for you, it could be a change for the new sparkle in their eye. Along with visible changes, they might also be draining more from your bank to shower this new lover in gifts.

You have heard the saying, “you can’t get too much of a good thing”. Well, unfortunately, this isn’t always true. Another sign of a cheating spouse is a sudden lack of intimacy and attention to you. Whatever they are getting from their secret lover is enough to satisfy. Instead, you get the “I’m tired” and “I’m not in the mood” comments – their needs are being satisfied elsewhere. Consider this for backward thinking: getting intimate with you, the spouse, would be like cheating on their new flame! Lack of intimacy and sex drive can result from different circumstances. If you cannot determine the whys to the lack of intimacy, then you might have a spouse that is getting it on the side.