Infidelity 101 – Common Flaws That Expose a Cheating Spouse

Have you noticed changes in your spouse? Some of these changes could be attributed to work or financial stress. Usually people are quick to look for comfort when they are stressed. However, if they are a cheating spouse, the last person they come to for comfort is you! Suspecting your spouse is cheating is an awful feeling, and you want to blame yourself. Be assured that you are not the one cheating – this low-life is single-handedly destroying your relationship. If you are unsure they are cheating, here are a few cheater characteristics to watch for, exposing them for what they are.

Whatever your sexual life was like, you will notice that is changes when your spouse gets involved with someone else. Usually it means a lack of sex between you two, partly because they are probably getting that need filled already and in some twisted way, sex with you is considered cheating on their new flame! If they do initiate sex, it might involve aspects that are out of the ordinary to your regular sexual routine, maybe due to something new they are experiencing with their secret lover. Either way, you will notice a difference, and you should be alerted that it means you have a cheating spouse on your hands.

Aside from sex, there may start to be a lack of intimacy and closeness between you two. This might mean less touching, hugs, kisses, even eye contact. Again, this is probably due to placing their intimacy elsewhere. They also will probably choose to do things by themselves, the things you used to do together. Get-togethers with family and friends might turn him off as he comes up with excuses not to attend. If they seem to be more into themselves and off “in another world”, you better start looking closer for a cheating spouse.

Have you noticed your significant other is more secretive lately? Do you notice that they get a hold of the bills first, or that they look for privacy when on the phone? They may even scramble to click this or than when they are online – in an attempt to hide something. Don’t be a fool – these obvious actions should give away their nasty secret quickly. You may want to invest in software that will track their online activities, called a keylogger. Anything and everything they do can be tracked and it will be very hard to reason their way out of tangible proof.