Infidelity 101 – Cheaters Zero, You Won!

You are pretty sure your significant other is cheating on you. The subtle signs of a cheater become more apparent each day as you feel the bonds of love you once had pull further and further away.

You are done.

You have been hurt beyond belief and must come to terms with the fact that you need to move on. It is time to fill in the last few pieces of the puzzle and blow their tiny, little secret life out of the water.

Now before you can dive in head first thrashing accusations around, you want to be sure that what you are dealing with is a cheating partner. Sometime what might seem like signs of infidelity, might be something else. There have been times when your partner is having stress at work and doesn’t want you to have to deal with it, so they start to be more secretive, maybe even having to work later. For your own sanity, you want to be sure.

Some of the signs you have observed may have included secretiveness, loss of focus on you and your life together, longer hours at work, making excuses, even receiving phone calls from unknown numbers. Your best bet is to observe carefully – put your relationship under a microscope and note every detail.

If they are secretive, it’s time to be as nosy as possible – ask lots of questions – let them know that you know something might be up.

That loss of focus in your relationship can be a hard one to deal with. Your self esteem drops because you feel they are not attracted to you anymore. If they are getting sex somewhere else, they are not as likely to come to you for it. Be careful not to go overboard and resort to smothering them with extra love. This will only push them further away. Your best bet is to talk about it – get to the bottom of why there is a lack of love between you two.

If they are calling to tell you they are working late, or they come of with excuses not to do certain things, then you have to take the initiative and get in their business! Bring them a late night snack at work, showing concern for their long hours. You might find out more than you want to.

Are you getting phone calls with quick hang ups? Is the number unfamiliar? These days with all the cell phones, it is harder to track a phone number. Many places online allow you to do a reverse cell phone look up. Usually you have access to a cell phone number and even can get information on the owners name and address! Suddenly you might be able to identify the person your significant other now considers their significant other! See below to find out more on doing a reverse phone look up.

There are a number of other cheating identifiers that may or may not be apparent. The more evidence you can gather, the less chance they will be able to lie their way out. Getting a solid case will go far when you begin divorce proceedings. You can protect yourself by obtaining as much information as possible – especially concrete information like names and numbers! You have every right to get to the bottom of your cheating partners cesspool and have them squirming like a worm!